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Friday, May 30, 2008

How To Pick Up Girls - 5 Useful Tips For Picking Up Girls

Having a little trouble with the ladies? No problem! Here are some simple, yet useful tips that you can use next time you spot a hot babe at the bar.

1. Eye Contact

As a general rule, you should never approach a girl without first making eye contact with her. You want to make sure that the girl you're picking up can see you coming so that you don't take her by surprise. During conversation you want to keep steady eye contact with her, making sure to break away every now and then. If you don't ever look away, you appear creepy to her.

2. Smile

Smiling is one of the simplest things you can do that can have a positive affect, not only on the girl you're picking up, but on your feelings as well. There have been numerous published studies that have shown that smiling for a few minutes a day, even if you're in a bad mood, can turn your day right around. So remember to smile!

3. Simple Hello

Alright, so we all know by now that pick up lines just don't work! The best way to start a conversation with a girl you'd like to pick up is to simply say "Hi." A friendly hello with a warm smile and great eye contact can go a long way in creating attraction with the girl you're picking up.

4. Use Open-ended Questions

Now this is something that I've had to work on quite a bit. You must ask questions that require the girl to give more then just a simple "yes" or "no" response. An example of a close-ended question would be asking your target if she likes vanilla ice cream. An open ended question would be; "What's your favourite ice cream and why?

5. Kino Her

Touching, or Kinesthetics as it's sometimes called, can be an extremely powerful attraction tool if used correctly. After talking with the girl for a few minutes and building up a connection, you can use some expertly placed touch to increase attraction. A great way to add touch to your approach would be poi4F6nting out an interesting piece of jewellery on the girl and asking her about it. Don't hesitate at all when going in for the touch, and make it seem completely normal.

If you employ these tips when you're out at the mall, bar, or club, I promise you they'll increase your success with girls by leaps and bounds.

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Michael Berg

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